In the days before
the computer and the DNA testing the person seeking their birth parent was at a
loss to finding their linage.
Some
families kept the truth of adoption hushed up. It was so for Richard who was born
in 1946 and until a physical before going away to college in 1964 had no idea
he was adopted. A slip by a doctor
opened the door.
It wasn’t
spoken of in the group he grew up in. His features were close to the people who
raised him. He was never needing to know his past for the present
circumstances.
But when he
got married and had two children it became important.
He searched
for records that were no longer there. He met many dead ends. It wasn’t easy. I
guess the search for the truth of adoption isn’t an easy one. At least for Hill
it wasn’t.
DNA, when he
used it, was useful. It helped weed out the possibilities.
It leaves the
question: is it worth it to seek an answer? If you don’t need it for medical proposes
or genetic markers, is it worth it financially and psychologically? It cost
Hill a lot of money to pursue. And by the time he started the search most of
the records and the markers were slowly disappearing if not completely gone.
The story is
told layer by layer and only if you are interested in the subject of genealogy
will you find it interesting. It is heavier than it should be which may be because
Hill seems to have self-published this book, I suspect.
The push he
gives at the finish to view his site--DNA-Testing-Advisor.com seems to be, I
suspect, his purpose for writing this account.
This book is
copyrighted in 2012. The website is still up. You can buy the book through that
site.
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